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I loved how it used to be when women were classy and men held doors open for them, paid for them, were gentlemen..
I loved how it used to be when women were classy and men held doors open for them, paid for them, were gentlemen..
do guys feel the same way abotu ladies? Would you rather a classy girl or more free spirit like one who isnt afraid to drink at parties or w/e
whats your idea of a lady?
NO girls dont what a croc of ****!
someone classy is always on the top of my preferences
every guy wants something different
intelligence
They want a lady in public and a tramp in the bedroom.
Chair, your right and wrong. A lot of guys think women like jerks because that is what they are usually with. Women like Chilvery. A man who will open a door for her, walk on the curb to keep her safe from traffic. But at the same time, they want a Man, who will take charge, and will defend her, and what is his territory. Does not smother her because a real man (Mr. Right) is comfortable with who he is, and does not fear the the other three types of guys.
1. Mr Right (Described above)
2. The wimp. (We don’t have to worry about these because women spot them a mile away and have no interest)
3. The Player. They say all the right things and are comfortable with themselves, but they are only interested in themselves and won’t try to hide it.
4. The Jerks. These are the guys who can lure the girls for the short term, but they can’t be trusted and eventually can’t hold on to those truelly beautiful women. Guys like me love to beat the crap out of guys like this.
Ladies, the first thing a guy notices is Asthetics. That scruffy looking outfit, foul language, dirty hair, heavy set body you try to call petite, the mole on your face with hair sticking out of it, smoking, and tatoos on the sides of your legs all say one thing to a guy. “TRASH”. and you set yourself up for the Jerks and the Wimps.
If you want to impress a guy like me, you need to take care of yourself. You don’t have to have the latest in fashion, you just need to be clean, ALL the time. in both appearence and manors. Be good to other people. If you get that much, then you already have the personality to win us over in the end. The “Mr. Right” that is right for you will come along. no matter if you are a brainy scientist, a playful actress, or the girl next door.
Personally, I like the girl next door type who is girly, but intelligent. Likes to go out and do things and is NOT simply looking for something better to come along.
I hope that answers your question.
I suppose guys want diversity.. variety..they want a lady.. some days.. then they want the same girl to change and be a more free spirit but most guys.. at least not ”nice guys” they like a girl who has different facetts to her.. she doesn’t always act the perfect lady but I dont’ believe a ”nice guy” would want a girl to get so drunk at a party that she would lose her self control and maybe do something totally embarrassing.. A woman or a girl should never do that for her own self respect to get that drunk that she no longer knows what she is doing.. it’s ok to drink at a party and to have fun at a party but if something similar happens as did to some woman I went to classes with.. she told all of us.. that one day after her divorce she went dating again and she went partying.. she got really drunk and danced on the table.. that may still have been fun… but then some guy asked her if she would come to the room he had there.. and she went along.. they had ***.. but she doesn’t remember what the guy looked like nor if the *** was good or not.. she woke up in the middle of the night and spent the next few hours in the bathroom with her head down the toilet .. stark ***** and then was looking for her clothes. .. the guy had left by the time she was capable again to take stock of her surroundings and her brain ..started to register what had happened .. huge headache and a big embarrassment.. but I kind of have to give it to her.. that she honestly told us this story.. This never happened to me.. because I just would not ever drink more than I can handle .. I want to walk out from a party or a pub on my two legs.. and in a reasonably straight line..and to be aware of what I say or do.. but then again if I had been in her place .. I guess I would not have told this story to the whole class so Kudos for her for having the guts to talk about an embarrassing event …without trying to make herself look in a better light..
My idea of a lady is a woman who is intelligent, smart, beautiful, and elegant. She would have an appreciation for the arts and would love a romantic evening at the theatre, symphony, or opera. I like classy girls, it’s kinda my thing. I am deeply passionate about my art (I’m a musician and composer), and I love sharing that with others. It would be an essential part of what I would share with my lady.
Yes, I look for a lady just as ladies look for gentlemen.