tuckertin asked:
If a man makes a good amount of money is it that important to him that the girl makes lots of money too? or that she went to college? what if she is a hard worker, makes decent money, has never had any problem supporting herself? plus a fun, nurturing, humerous, attractive person? not a dumb person-actually a pretty intelligent person, just didn’t go to college…
if he has a big successful job and a degree or whatever, does it matter if she never went to college or that she isn’t necessarliy pursuing some big dream, but in fact lives more day to day (lives for the day) and doesn’t have any plans to change that?
Is that free-spirit a turn-on? a turn-off?
it’s not that i’m not working..I have three different jobs and i’ve never had money issues, I make decent money i work a lot! but i’m not afrain to take a day off here and there or go out of town for the weekend
If a man makes a good amount of money is it that important to him that the girl makes lots of money too? or that she went to college? what if she is a hard worker, makes decent money, has never had any problem supporting herself? plus a fun, nurturing, humerous, attractive person? not a dumb person-actually a pretty intelligent person, just didn’t go to college…
if he has a big successful job and a degree or whatever, does it matter if she never went to college or that she isn’t necessarliy pursuing some big dream, but in fact lives more day to day (lives for the day) and doesn’t have any plans to change that?
Is that free-spirit a turn-on? a turn-off?
it’s not that i’m not working..I have three different jobs and i’ve never had money issues, I make decent money i work a lot! but i’m not afrain to take a day off here and there or go out of town for the weekend
Earning is not supposed to be contest between spouses
If the guy is successful dosent realy matter if the girl is.
I wouldn’t care at all, of course I don’t make a lot of money so I can’t say for sure. but theres nothing better than a free spirit to me, I just wish I could find a sugar mama whos also a free spirit
If the man is already making enough money to support a family and himself comfortably, i’m sure the only thing on his mind is women, and the last thing on his mind is whether or not they’re also rich! If he’s rich, he’s wondering why he’s not married yet, so he’s going to find the girl that keeps him happiest and takes the best care of him when he gets home from work at the end of a long day making the money to put food on the table. You don’t need to have been to college although i’d say it’s something i’d consider somewhat. As long as you have something going on between your ears i’d say the man is bound to give a woman a shot. Granted, the woman cannot be a clueless bimbo. She has to be smart like him or he’ll never be able to have conversations without sounding like hes talking down to a little girl . Overall, a rich man who’s not married is not going to be picky when it comes to the wealth of the women he’s seeking. He wants to be married and put that big salary to use, and he wants a woman to take care of him when he gets home from work.
The point is : how much is that descent money that u feel satisfied with? Ppl who like living for the day, who don’t pursue big dreams, who have free-spirit, as u called it, easily get satisfied with pea-not fee and call it descent money. It doesn’t matter whether u have college education or not, but it does matter whether or not u have a dream, which you work . live, run around, for. It also matters how worthwhile that dream is. You will turn on a guy if u live for some worthwhile goal. You will turn off a guy if you live for the day, for that is the road to perdition. So don’t say you don’t have plans to change. You must change to live a life you can check periodically to see if you are succeeding or not.