tuckertin asked:
If a man makes a good amount of money is it that important to him that the girl makes lots of money too? or that she went to college? what if she is a hard worker, makes decent money, has never had any problem supporting herself? plus a fun, nurturing, humerous, attractive person? not a dumb person-actually a pretty intelligent person, just didn’t go to college…
if he has a big successful job and a degree or whatever, does it matter if she never went to college or that she isn’t necessarliy pursuing some big dream, but in fact lives more day to day (lives for the day) and doesn’t have any plans to change that?
Is that free-spirit a turn-on? a turn-off?
If a man makes a good amount of money is it that important to him that the girl makes lots of money too? or that she went to college? what if she is a hard worker, makes decent money, has never had any problem supporting herself? plus a fun, nurturing, humerous, attractive person? not a dumb person-actually a pretty intelligent person, just didn’t go to college…
if he has a big successful job and a degree or whatever, does it matter if she never went to college or that she isn’t necessarliy pursuing some big dream, but in fact lives more day to day (lives for the day) and doesn’t have any plans to change that?
Is that free-spirit a turn-on? a turn-off?
i dont want a lazy bum tree hugger for a wife. so yea she better work.
depends on the person and how you define success, as you define success actually, then yes, but it depends on the man.
There are very wealthy people who are not successful. Geeks, losers and people who luck into a position. There were times where i would have been more than willing to marry a waitress, still would but as it turns out i gave up my high rolling to return to my home country and am no longer wealthy. That’s precisely why you cannot measure success by wealth. Am I more or less talented or successful because i have money or power at the moment? I suppose you could say yes, but i prefer a broader view.
I suspect a lot of men with money would like a wife as you describe. I know I’d like a girl who is physically attractive and not horribly irritating personality-wise. Or less physically attractive with a good personality. Anyways the “free-spirit” thing itself probably isn’t the turn-on.
A spouse that is also able to earn some money from time to time to help with expenses is good. There is nothing wrong with having a single income earner in the home and from your description, it sounds like alot of men would like you as a partner.
Successful = long working hours
If both partners work alot, they’ll almost never see each other.
yea its very important… seriously otherwise he will get easily streesed out and mad at u